Who knew such a fun way to pass the time could lead to marriage challenges, and yet we've all heard the horror stories about how people reconnect and suddenly their lives are turned upside down.
Springfield Moms sponsor and ConnectedPairs marriage counselor Marilyn Stevens offers this book review of a fascinating new resource called Facebook and Your Marriage by K. Jason and Kelli Krafsky.
"As a marriage counselor and coach, I highly recommend this book for today’s couples. When someone suggested I consider Facebook a year ago, it seemed like a foreign and frightening world! However, now it is a natural part of life as it is with many couples.
It’s difficult to seek advice from our parents about how to manage Facebook dilemmas, as it was not even invented in their day. Consequently, today’s couples are challenged to navigate new technology by the seat of their pants. Sometimes that can be painful.
This book is written in a creative style similar to Facebook pages, with questions and answers, endless resources in the sidebar, and threads to related subjects in the book.
The Krafsky’s offer practical advice in how to be proactive with Facebook:
In "Simple Ways to Safeguard Your Marriage, Your Spouse, and Yourself," the authors address topics like;
- R.D.A. (Recommended Daily Allowance)
- Avoiding FB Addictions
- Talking FB with Non-FB spouse
- Friending Exes….or Not?
In "SOS! My Marriage is suffering because of Facebook!" suggestions are offered for those tricky topics like:
- Viewing Spouse’s Chat Sessions
- Logging into my Mate’s Face Book
- Is it an emotional Affair?
Finally, couples are urged to embrace this technology to enhance their relationship. In "Let’s get it on! Have a Facebook Affair…With your Spouse!" the authors offer suggestions on:
- Loving a Non-FB Spouse on Facebook
- Be Long Distance Lovers
- Creative Invite to Date Your Mate.
Don’t have time to run to the bookstore to pick this one up? You can order "Facebook and Your Marriage" and other helpful resources on-line at www.connectedpairs.com."
Submitted by Marilyn Stevens with ConnectedPairs. Speaking of technology, you can now follow ConnectedPAIRS on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, and choose on-line counseling in the comfort of your own home through Skype. You can also schedule appointments on-line 24/7. For more information, visit our Mom's Choice Directory.
